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BMIG
10-10-2004, 11:38 PM
Updated: 10-10-2004 12:26:35 AM

D.C. Fire Recruit Charged with DWI in Crash That Kills New Jersey Fire Captain's Family
Father Watched as Family Was Killed While Stopped on Interstate

TOM JACKMAN
Reprinted with permission from washingtonpost.com and The Washington Post


Three members of a New Jersey family driving to Culpeper for an "early Thanksgiving" family reunion were killed early yesterday when an allegedly drunk driver slammed into their parked car along Interstate 66 in Fairfax County, Virginia State Police said.

The car, a 1994 Honda Accord carrying four people, had pulled onto the shoulder of westbound I-66 near the Nutley Street exit, police said. A restricted travel lane further separated the stopped car from through traffic, officers said.

Maureen O'Callahan, 41, had been driving, but about 2:45 a.m., she had grown tired and decided to pull over and let her husband drive, according to state police Sgt. Wallace Bouldin.

Tim O'Callahan, 42, climbed out of the Accord; his daughter, Tara O'Callahan, 20, and his nephew John Oldigs, 23, were in the backseat. As Tim O'Callahan watched, Bouldin said, a 2001 Dodge Ram pickup truck smashed into the Accord, destroying it.

Maureen O'Callahan, Tara O'Callahan and Oldigs were pronounced dead at the scene. There was nothing Tim O'Callahan, a veteran fire captain in Jersey City, N.J., could do, Bouldin said.

Police said Jonathan Conner O'Neal, 24, of Delaplane, a firefighter trainee in the District, was driving the pickup. He was taken to Inova Fairfax Hospital with non-life-threatening injuries.

Police charged O'Neal with driving while intoxicated. Bouldin said troopers would meet with Fairfax prosecutors this week to decide whether to add charges of involuntary manslaughter.

The O'Callahans live in Barnegat, N.J., along Barnegat Bay on the central New Jersey shore. Maureen O'Callahan was a professional hairdresser and mother of three children, said a relative who declined to be identified.

She was one of 17 children, and her parents had retired from the military and moved to the Culpeper area, the relative said. In order to celebrate a Thanksgiving with her parents, Maureen O'Callahan and her siblings traveled annually to Culpeper for a "Thanksgiving in October," the relative said.

Maureen and Tim O'Callahan met while attending St. Peter's College in Jersey City, the relative said. After college, Tim O'Callahan became a firefighter. His three brothers are police lieutenants in Jersey City, his father was a lieutenant, and three uncles also served on the Jersey City force.

"He was the first fireman," his relative said. He was said to be in shock yesterday.

Maureen O'Callahan was described as "one of those people who was always reaching out for the family," the relative said. "Always cooking. The welcome mat was always out."

The O'Callahans had moved about 16 years ago from Jersey City to Barnegat, where they raised three children: Maureen, 22, Tara and Caigan, 16.

Tara was a sophomore at Ramapo College in Mahwah, N.J., where she was a shortstop on the varsity softball team. She turned 20 last Monday, her relative said. She loved the outdoors and often went canoeing and hiking in the state's Pine Barrens.

"She was a great competitor, a great athlete," the relative said. "Always had a smile on her face."

John Oldigs, Maureen O'Callahan's nephew, lived in Jersey City. His immediate family was unavailable for comment yesterday

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Ghetto FF
10-10-2004, 11:57 PM
I was wondering how long it would take before this hit the TWD.
Very sad for all. One man lost his wife and daughter. The FF recruit has probably lost his job, his license, a lot of money for an attorney and has to live with this for the rest of his life. So sad.

Phantom
10-11-2004, 12:09 AM
The FF recruit has probably lost his job, his license, a lot of money for an attorney and has to live with this for the rest of his life. So sad.

I'm not sure I want to hear any sympathy for this guy, he has hurt a brother fireman and disgraced our department.

KMA
10-11-2004, 12:36 AM
How one's decisions affect others is often a difficult lesson.

DCTROLL
10-11-2004, 12:09 PM
We should all take a step back and think about this story the next time we find ourselves in that situation.

There are hundreds of guys on this job that any one of us can call for a ride if ever needed.

Condolences to Jersey City Captain

Hey Slim
10-11-2004, 12:30 PM
I'd like to say something, but I don't think this is the place for it.

My Condolences to my Jersey City Brother!

Keepnitsafe
10-11-2004, 12:56 PM
I have no problem saying something, any POS that gets behind the wheel of an automobile after drinking deserves “NO SYMPATHY” when they kill an innocent person!

You know what can happen if you drink and drive before you start drinking, which in my opinion makes it premeditation when you kill or injure someone.

Hey Slim
10-11-2004, 01:32 PM
Keepnitsafe,
its OK if they don't kill someone?????????????????????????

LightsandSirens
10-11-2004, 04:22 PM
What D.C. firefighter recruit O'Neal did is inexcusable. I cannot find any sympathy for him. But sadly, it's all I can feel for our brother from New Jersey, Tim O'Callahan, who had his entire world destroyed Saturday morning. I wish I could offer him more, but all I have are prayers and sympathy.

One man made one decision that ruined many lives. O'Neal is looking at jail time and the lifetime burden of knowing he killed three innocent people. Mr. O'Callahan is looking at a lifetime without his family. How can you recover from that? I don't know if I could.

If your station doesn't already have one, please organize a designated driver program. I don't know about you all, but I'd rather get a call at 3 a.m. asking for a ride home than a call at 3 a.m. telling me that a brother has killed, or been killed.

Keepnitsafe
10-11-2004, 04:31 PM
You know what can happen if you drink and drive before you start drinking, which in my opinion makes it premeditation when you kill or injure someone.
Injure or Kill!

jonee noxville
10-12-2004, 08:30 PM
I also believe that a brother Firefighter from Fairfax County got injured during this terrible auto accident. We should also remeber him in our prayers as well.
This whole thing could have been avoided if better judgement was used. As for Mr. O'Neal not a day will go by for the rest of his life that he will not think about this, he will give his debt to society when the time comes

Mutch
10-12-2004, 09:04 PM
My condolences go out to Capt O’Callahan and his family. But is there a lesson to be learned with this tragedy? I would say the lesson would be, when you get tired and want to change drivers, take the extra few minutes it will take to get off at the next exit, pull into a parking lot and make the change. God knows what kind of whackos and morons are out there on the highway now days. It may take a few extra minutes but better to be safe than sorry.

WesFx911
10-12-2004, 09:53 PM
There were several tragedies in this incident, of course the family of the Capt from Jersey losing his whole family.....the FF from DC probably losing his career as a result of a DWI and yes a Fairfax Lt was injured, thank god it wasn't as serious as first thought. During the extrication the truck has been shored up and when they went to winch the car out the cribbing shifted and the truck pinned the LT against the jersey wall. At least this is as I understand it. He was transported and ended up with a severely bruised pelvis. I know the Capt from Jersey was not famliar maybe with I66, but he stopped on the "shoulder" lane which during the evening rush is actually the right lane, there are red X's and Green arrows to tell you when to drive in that lane or not to but even sober drivers ignore the red x's and drive in that lane 24 hours. It is NEVER safe to stop on the intertstate unless you have an unavoidable emergency. These are all hard lessons us humans may never learn :(

TCosgroveJones
10-14-2004, 10:40 PM
I wasn't going to say anything about this tragedy. But some of the posts on here , I believe, are way out of line and that includes a couple on the Montgomery County page.

Phantom says "I'm not sure I want to hear any sympathy for this guy, he has hurt a brother fireman and disgraced our department."

Keppin it safe says "I have no problem saying something, any POS that gets behind the wheel of an automobile after drinking deserves “NO SYMPATHY” when they kill an innocent person!

#1P**** says"So does DC make it a practice to hire future murders that kill fellow brothers while driving drunk. "

I find the above comments offensive and demeaning. How in the world can you make such comments , when you most likley have left a FD funtion after tilting a few back. I've been there done that and still don't know how I got home. Remember the Bowling League, Union Meetings during the day with the trash cans full in the back of the room. How about the third day of day work and don't forget the retirement dinners.
I don't condone what happened . I offer no excuses for the terriable events of that night. I can only offer my prayers and condolances to both men and their families. I pray that God gives Capt O'Callahan the strength to get through this .
So lets all step back and take a look at what we do and what our friends are doing at all the social functions. If one needs a ride home take the keys and drive em home. Lets vow to never let this tragedy strike our Department or any other Department again. Hell I'll be the designated Driver.
Just my Thoughts
Cosgr :D ve

WONDER DAWG
10-15-2004, 09:23 AM
We all have done it at one time or another. Yes Cosgrove you are right please take thier keys. They will only be pissed at you for a while.

I my heart goes out to everyone involved including the brothers from Fairfax who ran the call.

DCTROLL
10-15-2004, 05:23 PM
Well said Cosgrove.

The same point I was trying to convey.

Junkie
10-17-2004, 11:26 PM
I haven't been on here in a long while, but because this issue hit close to home I had to comment.

Please take what I am about to say at face value, there's no hidden message or jab. I'm curious about the people O'Neill was with that night, and what actions if any they took to look out for our brother's well being. I've heard comments like he's a grown man and responsible for his actions. I completely agree. It has also been said on here "we've all been there." So most of us should know first hand about the lack of judgement that goes hand in hand with consuming the spirits. But why wasn't more of an effort made to "prevent" this tradegy? Sometimes people slip through the cracks, believe me I know. I've been known to be stealthy in past to do just that. But among this brotherhood, it should be pretty damn hard to "slip through" if you have brothers watching out for brothers.

I am not pointing fingers. I am as guilty as the rest, I just wish I was there that night with the mindset to give a beat-down if necessary. I hope that we can all take something from this to prevent future occurances. Wonder Dawg is right, they won't be mad for too long.

Remember, it doesn't take a "POS" to make a bad decision. I could happen to any of us. This person wasn't a POS before the incident.

BMIG
04-12-2006, 12:21 PM
This former recruit is now paying for his mistake. You had a AFC step down because of dui/dwi incident. You had the kid Steve who was finally terminated because of his actions.

So what do you think should happen to somebody(3rd batt kid) who gets popped by the police twice in one week for dui/dwi offenses, and now can't drive or be detailed to the ambulance because his license is suspended(which having a valid one is a condition of employment). And yes his superiors know of this. What say you.

fildabox
04-13-2006, 09:57 AM
BMIG,
Dont know of this incident you are speaking of but does it matter? Plain and simple....does not meet job requirements now.. Termination. But there are so many people who still have jobs with this department that have screwed up somewhere along the line. The biggest offense (in my opinion) is drug test failure. WHY does the department allow this to happen? We have people who have failed testing and have been thru the rehab program numorous times and yet they are still employed. Is it because they are officers? Overtime fraud, sick leave abuse, work place violence, sexual harassment and the list goes on. So many issues have been swept under the rug that it is hard to justify firing anyone at this point because of past practices. Does time on the job matter or play as a deciding factor?

BMIG
04-13-2006, 11:32 AM
Thought I throw it out for discussion. His actions off duty now effect his co workers on duty because of his off duty actions. Just wanted to get some opinions. Hell, they want to terminate folks for wearing beards. But I digress.

Goodtimes
04-13-2006, 09:23 PM
Here is a little statistic for you:

On average for every one DUI/DWI the police issue to a person under the influence...that same person has driven under the influence 150 times before they were caught.

I think for a few of us that maybe even more than 150.

Kobersteen
04-14-2006, 11:00 PM
Hear hear Hook.

The Engine officer who was IC of that wreck retired from Fairfax not too long ago. Before he left, he conveyed a really emotional story of being split between his professional duties and wanting to reach out to a brother who has just suffered a tragedy that all of us will hopefully never have to go through.

I know that I would gladly pick up a brother or sister from a bar in the middle of the night then have to hear about how they lost their job, killed another or was killed themselves because they were too f-ing stupid to call me or another brother or sister.

If we are truly a brother and sisterhood, don't be scared to admit you have had too many and definately don't be too scared to stand up to a brother or sister who has an alcohol dependancy problem and get them help.

Stay safe...